Talking about how a daddy will behave and react when it comes to handling baby.
This is what Olive Tree always say to me:
WHY!! It's really what others said, when you have given birth, treatment of EMPRESS DOWAGER is gone and you are banish to cold palace. When required to please the Emperor, or Crown Prince needed you, you will then be summon to do the tasks.
Just now, trying to get BB Seth to sleep, as I had a stiff neck situation and had kinda sprain my right hand, I was thinking with the new sling skills I've acquired, putting BB Seth in the sling, would help. This is because BB Seth sleeps well in Sling and I do not have to always pat him and carry him with my hands. Olive Tree has issue and "told" me off that I should not make it a habit. He said that now I am not working, it's ok but what if I work, how? I retorted said now I am not working is the best time to practice so that in future, BB Seth would get to sleep so much easier and earlier without a fuss. Hiaz...
Still Olive Tree shot me the disapproving look. I was again, upset, and put BB Seth down on bed, with the little one crying, told him to make BB Seth sleep!! I don't care already! I head for my laptop and surf away!
Again, I am a bad mommy!
Frustrated la!! Very!! Guess my usage is up. So now I am beck and call, maid liao!
Even yes, I think he doesn't treat me so. However, he doesn't know by his words and action, I feel so. He doesn't know I require his attention too. Everyday, he comes home, sweetly tells BB Seth, "I miss you so much, I love you so much, etc etc." There's no more, " Wife, I miss you so much."
Should I expect more?
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